Among the most common New Year’s resolutions deal with diet and exercise. While these can be great, it’s important not to overlook the simple changes you can make to improve your relationships. Here are a few ways to do just that.

Little Surprises

Everyone loves a good surprise. Make it a resolution to surprise the people in your life in small ways. Leave a Post-It Note for your loved one on the bathroom mirror. Surprise your friend with a new book. These needn’t be big or lofty. In fact, the smaller the better! Show the people in your life just how much you appreciate them.

Hugs and Kisses

Make it a new year’s goal to kiss or hug your loved ones to say “Hello” and “Goodbye.” This one’s all about being present and in the moment. Make sure each hug or kiss lasts for at least 5 seconds. Like you mean it! You’ll feel closer than ever to your favorite people and they’ll appreciate the thoughtfulness.

Ask More Questions

When it comes to relationships, it’s all about communication. You can use this list of questions to get closer to your partner or loved one. It’s a great exercise for bonding and learning more about your partner.